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Mary Ann Whisenhunt and her daughter Lura
Harper
Originally I was searching for the name Whitzenhunt, then I remembered
writing it down as a kid. Somehow, my years in Germany had muddled my recollections.
Whizen is a type of joke as well as Witz Anyway, that's why I could never
find the name listed anywhere, I had misspelled it!
Sept, 2000... I have made no headway on the internet. I know that she
spoke German as her first language. All the references I have found so
far go back too early. I have read that many German/Swiss [Whitzenhunt
is listed as both Swiss and German] settlements in Louisiana, Texas, Okla.
and Ark. kept their native language well into the 20th century. Fredricksburg
and Bastrop Texas are good examples, the elder population of these areas
still speak English with an accent just as the Cajuns in La. do.
Nov 2000... I know little about Lura's mother, except what I remember
of her. Since she died when I was around 5 years old, that is almost nothing.
I remember driving to Oklahoma to visit her regularly, then the visits
just stopped. No one ever explained to me that she had died.
I remember the warmth and sweetness of her aroma and how it felt to
be held by her. I remember following her around as she cooked or teased
the family.
One afternoon my father was sitting in the cool shade of her back yard,
talking to someone sitting in another chair. I was playing in the grass.
Grandma opened the back door and held out a shiny red apple, "Leon?
Ich habben one appfel left. One appfel won't make nothing. Maybe I just
throw it away."
While they were discussing the merits of keeping it or throwing it away,
I was jumping up and down, yelling, "I'll eat it!"
They let me get all riled up before they feigned to notice me for the
first time. "Why, why didn't we think of that? Betty Ellen can eat the
apple," Grandma laughed as she winked at Daddy and tossed the apple to
him so he could give it to me.
Grandma ran a small general store just a walk down the road from her
house. Since we usually visited on a Sunday, the store was always closed
when we were there, but Grandma would walk down the road with me and open
the store so I could choose whatever piece of candy I wanted from the big
glass display case.
The last visit I remember, we were standing behind the counter picking
out my candy when two young neighborhood children entered. Grandma waited
patiently for them to look at the entire display. They chose their candy
and asked how much it cost. She asked how much they had. "A penny each,"
they replied. "Why, aren't you lucky, das's exactly vat it costs."
I remember this clearly, because that was the summer I learned to read
and I saw the candy was marked at a much higher price and tried to correct
Grandma. She shushed me, then after they left, explained that they would
have been disappointed if she'd told them they couldn't afford the candy.
"Vat does money matter for such tiny kinders?" She said as she hugged me
tight, "Not everyone iss lucky to haf un Grandma mit a candy store."
I remember she had a thick German accent and sometimes had difficulty
using the English language, but I never had trouble understanding her or
the German words sprinkled throughout her speech like the sugar in her
cinnamon rolls. I remember her well!
More on Grandma Mary Ann.
Her husband was known as 'One-armed' Jack [Harper.] He lost his arm
in the Civil War. I'm not sure how, since he was just a kid back then.
When they were older and their kids had grown, she divorced him and
married a man named Jackson. I always knew her as "Grandma Jackson."
She was a liberated woman who lived her life as she believed it should
be lived, with love and gusto. From the stories I was told, One-Armed Jack
never liked to work and she made the money with her store and grew her
vegetables and fruits and meats, etc. Once her kids were grown, she opted
for a little romance and a man to help her make a living.
Leon Atkins looked very much like Jack Harper, but his personality matched
Mary Ann's.
Mary Ann was plump. The only picture
I have of her was taken around 1900-1905. She was tightly corseted in a
silk taffeta looking dress, but she still looked very plump with round
eyes in a round face and her hair tightly curled across her forehead.
I remember her in house dresses to her ankles and heavy shoes.
Her Children and their descendants gather at the park in Gainesville
the second Saturday of each July for a reunion in honor of her birthday
which falls near that weekend.
As a child I went to the reunion often and a few times as a young adult.
I remember my 2nd cousins Pauline and Mary Ann very well.
I moved away from Texas in my early 30's and miss seeing all my cousins
and aunts, but I always tell myself that some day....
Mary Ann's first husband was Jack Harper. It is pure conjecture on my
side that Kenton Harper fathered Belle's children. Kenton was one of the
agents in charge of 'the Little Trail of Tears' of 1851 when the
Chickasaws were moved enmasse to the Indian Territories which later became
Oklahoma. Belle was one of the survivors of that march. She hated whites
fiercely, to the point that she couldn't stand her own grandchildren. My(Betty
Ellen's) Aunt Dovie Harper was one of those grandchildren and she said
that one didn't want to get caught too close to Grandma Belle!
The Chickasaw nation fought on the Confederate side during the Civil
War (They were British loyalist during the Revolutionary War).
When Belle died, the family carried her back to her people near Dennison(?)
in Grayson Co., Tx. for their burial ceremonies.
The Chickasaw Nation dips into Texas in Grayson County Texas and that's
where the Headquarters use to be. May be still.
A childhood friend of Lura Harper's said that she was the most prophetic
person he ever met... is this where we get it??? Hmmmm...
More about that meeting with her friend:
I was standing on the sidewalk on Main Street in Nocona waiting for
Daddy who was in the store. A small gray haired man walked up to me, "Excuse
me, but are you by chance related to Lura Harper?" I acknowledged that
I was her grand-daughter. He took off his hat, held it against his chest
and said, "I would have known it if I'd met you on the streets of New York
City. You are the spitting image of her."
"She and I were childhood friends, the best of pals. I loved her like
a sister."
Lura died from childbed fever (a staph infection carried from patient
to patient by the doctor). Her baby boy died also and was buried with her,
leaving my father, Leon and his brother A.J. motherless. They lived with
Ben. Paul's sister, Lona, for a few years until Ben. Paul married again.
He chose a first cousin of Lura's for his second wife. They had two sons,
Edward and Louis(Rusty). Lura is buried in the Nocona cemetery alongside
Paul. Her headstone reads "Till we meet again..."
Lura's baby sister, Dovie, told me that she often spent the summer's
with Lura and Paul. One of her fondest memories was a wash day.
They had a big black cast iron pot simmering over a fire where they
scrubbed the clothes on a washboard.
Lura was hanging clothes on the line when Paul rode up on his horse,
jumped off and grabbed Lura around the waist to kiss her. Dovie and Leon
giggled, Lura started to pull away, but then shrugged at the kids and kissed
Paul back. This was about a year before Lura died.
28 Aug 2001...
WOW! Talk about good luck. I found Mary Ann Whisenhunt on Ancestry.com
with ancestors going back to before 1570 in Switzerland to a man named
Guillaume 'William' Visinand. Peter Philip Visinand was the last to use
that name, it was changed to Whisenhunt (along with several other spellings)
after he immigrated to the 'Colonies.'
Peter was born 10 apr 1684 in Heilsbruck, Edenkoben, Germany
and died abt. 1744 in Old Lancaster, PA
Now I need an explaination why she spoke German as her first language! |